One of the things I’m immediately noticing showing up in the well loved “you can alter your lifetime and have anything you desire” messages, is an acknowledgement that it takes age and effort – that you can’t just “wish it fair.” You really have to capture action and PARTNER with the action and birth it into the earth. You cannot alter the earth without first changing yourself – and changing yourself is something that typically happens OVER AGE, one step at a age.
One of my mentors, Fabienne Fredrickson, says the Universe always answers and fulfills your requests – however not necessarily in the path you reckon it will. It typically shows up as an OPPORTUNITY to capture some small action that will lead you toward the fulfillment of your request. So you INQUIRY, and then watch for opportunities showing up that you can affirm YES to and capture action on. That’s how it works. NOT inquiry, inquiry, inquiry, and sit on the couch waiting for it land in your lap.
Absolute alter requires a surrender of your ancient ways. To constitute path for the fresh you showing up, you must let go of ancient, comfortable habits…. and that typically takes some age. This is really dense, if not impossible, to do on your own. This is why structured programs, where you systematically engage a action in partnership with a coach or mentor, are so helpful for realizing the changes and results in your lifetime that you desire. Without the structured action and ability of partnership, we tend to stay in the same ancient grooves and get the same ancient results.
Have you noticed that lifetime has a certain inertia to it, and when you press in on it, it tends to press back a bit? It’s called homeostasis. In their textbook, “The Lifetime We Are Given” (Tarcher Putnam, 1995), George Leonard and Michael Murphy mark outside, “Our body, brain, and behavior have a built-in tendency to stay the same within rather narrow limits and to snap back when changed – and it’s a very excellent body they do.” It’s what keeps your body together and all its systems running smoothly. The body works very dense at maintaining homeostasis and keeping things balanced. Homeostasis is the natural resistance to alter; it’s the tendency of the Universe to maintain the status quo.
This does NOT mean things don’t alter; things are always changing. They alter over age, however, ONE STEP AT A AGE. And as you travel your path of growth and development you are certainly going to run into this naturally occurring phenomenon. Knowing about it in advance will aid you identify the mechanism when it shows up and wisely choose to continue on your path. Transformation can happen in an instant, however it usually doesn’t.
Here’s how it usually goes: we commence off Unconsciously Incompetent. In this stage of evolution we don’t know what we don’t know. In the condition of our subconscious habits and patterns, they are running our lives without our conscious awareness of it. We perceive and interact with the earth the path we see it and “that’s just the path it is.”
Then, as you clarify your passions and commence engaging your personal vision, you will go into the following stage: Conscious Incompetence. You are immediately becoming aware of what you previously did not know. You are immediately aware of your incompetence in a particular arena and, in the condition of subconscious habits and patterns, you are becoming aware of how they are running your lifetime in ways that you no longer desire. Although this stage can be a bit painful, it is a MAJOR first step, since things you desire to alter or develop have went from unconsciousness into your CONSCIOUS AWARENESS where you can immediately see them and commence working with them.
Over age, as you become more and more aware of how your subconscious habits and patterns have been running your lifetime, and you build your ability to choose differently, you go into a fresh stage of development: Conscious Competence. This is a fantastic place to be since you are immediately competent at choosing and making your lifetime, using your fresh skills, empowering truly authentic choices (rather than unconsciously reacting), and therefore experiencing success in the path you have envisioned.
It’s vital to notice that most of the progress and “employment” happens between these second and third stages. You will capture one step forward, then two steps back, and two steps forward, then one step back. You bounce back and forth between your incompetence and your competence, until you finally develop stability: your ancient habits and patterns lose their grip while your fresh skills capture hold and you are able to competently constitute your lifetime in a fresh, consciously empowered path.
Finally you go into stage four: Unconscious Incompetence. You become so competent at using the fresh skill and believing your fresh beliefs, that the fresh skill, or competency, eventually becomes “just the path things are.” At this mark it moves into your unconscious intellect. This is a fantastic stage to be in since immediately your familiarity of yourself and your earth, as you have consciously chosen and made it, goes basically on auto pilot. Whether it is health, wealth, like, or peacefulness, these fresh skills and competencies become a deeply integral part of who you are.
Simple, common examples of this action are learning to tie our shoes, brush our teeth, or learning to propel. All of these things at one mark in our lives were dense for us to do. However immediately we do them automatically without giving it a thought. They are literally programmed into our subconscious and our ability to do these things is “just the path it is.” This is also fair of other “ways of being” and beliefs you have learned and practiced over the years, whether they are empowering or not.
As you step onto your Hero’s Journey and commence embracing your unique passions, purpose, and mission, you will familiarity those places in yourself ready for transformation and evolution. Keep this imitation in intellect and you will be bigger able to stay on the path and constitute the mojo you desire.
Inquiry yourself: “What do I desire to alter or constitute in my lifetime fair immediately?” Jot down the things that come to intellect. Then, knowing that alter typically happens over age, one step at a age, inquiry yourself, “Am I really willing to do what it takes to have these changes I desire in my lifetime?” If the answer is yes, congratulations, you are embarking on an exciting journey. And if the answer is no, that’s fine also. It just method either what you desire isn’t really what you desire, OR, you really are not ready to constitute the alter fair immediately. Either path, yes or no, honor your truth.
Congratulations! You’re one step closer to changing your lifetime, making what you desire, and accessing your mojo!
Roger Kenneth Marsh is a Spiritual Life Coach & creator of the Major Good Mojo System. He has an engineering degree, MBA, is a Certified Life Coach, HeartMath® Provider, and Passion Test® Facilitator. Get his book “NexGen Human” on Amazon.com, and FREE CD “3 Keys to Major Good Mojo” at http://www.majorgoodmojo.com/free-cdscp.bfreesystem.com Boresha-bskinny-coffee.com Learn More About The Best MLM Compensation Plan Click Here Click Here For More Info